I wouldn’t do it, but I don’t begrudge him his choice. Everyone deals with death in his or her own way. I hope he doesn’t regret this. It begs the question, is it best to wait to write about grief, or is the moment the truest time?
Originally posted on We'll Be the Last Ones to Let You Down:
Perhaps you’ve heard of NPR’s Scott Simon this week—he’s getting a lot of attention for tweeting his thoughts and observations as he sits at his mother’s deathbed.
As with any public figure’s actions, Simon is getting both praise and criticism. I read through the negative comments posted to the Los Angeles Times article—here’s a sample:
- “That is just creepy”
- “Ratings must have been down”
- “This guy needs to seek mental help”
- “Can’t even someone’s dying days be afforded some dignity?”
- “Ghoulish. Disrespectful. Selfish.”
- “Rather he used his Mother to garner favor and a story as well as pity.”
But what Simon is doing is not new—only the vehicle for expressing his thoughts is new. Books and essays, thousands of times over, have been written about a loved one’s death, and I hear little similar criticism leveled against that type of writing. So apparently the thing that is making people…
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