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		<title>Comment on The #PowerofMany: Confronting Cancer as a Community by Elizabeth Gaucher</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/27/the-powerofmany-confronting-cancer-as-a-community/#comment-7727</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth Gaucher]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 23:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank YOU for responding! I am sad to hear you have lost loved ones to cancer. Your support for the worldwide community of people seeking accessible, compassionate care is appreciated.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank YOU for responding! I am sad to hear you have lost loved ones to cancer. Your support for the worldwide community of people seeking accessible, compassionate care is appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The #PowerofMany: Confronting Cancer as a Community by summercrew</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/27/the-powerofmany-confronting-cancer-as-a-community/#comment-7726</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[summercrew]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 23:04:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just like the folks you speak about on here I have my story too. Many of my family members have passed from cancer. Some of them with little help. There is a great need for many more facilities like the one in your community.

Thank you for posting this.
Summer Crew 
I pinned and posted to most of the &quot;share this&quot; area.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just like the folks you speak about on here I have my story too. Many of my family members have passed from cancer. Some of them with little help. There is a great need for many more facilities like the one in your community.</p>
<p>Thank you for posting this.<br />
Summer Crew<br />
I pinned and posted to most of the &#8220;share this&#8221; area.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by atomsofthought</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7725</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[atomsofthought]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 14:40:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hear ya, though I&#039;m as OK with the word &quot;fail&quot; as I am with &quot;stupid&quot; as I used it in my comment.  A little stupidity and failure are part of growing up.  I did stupid things and I failed fairly often when I was a kid.  I do stupid things and I fail as an adult, too.  I use these words because I&#039;d like to emphasize that it&#039;s OK to mess up when you&#039;re young, and it&#039;s still OK to mess up in certain ways when you&#039;re older.  

I admit to not knowing the entirety of your local situation, but in almost every instance that I&#039;ve encountered where an official like this principal was impugned mercilessly for what appeared to be a bad decision, he or she was not out to harm anyone or to enjoy some kind of power trip.  The situation took on a life of its own apart from what any single individual ever wanted to happen, and the initial decision had some kind of specific justification that either could not be communicated fully to the public or seemed uncontroversial until thousands of people started layering on their own interpretations of what was happening.  Maybe the principal in this case acted stupidly (does that justify other people&#039;s reactions, as you&#039;ve noted?).  But it&#039;s quite possible (and frequently happens to be the case) that he didn&#039;t have the luxury of explaining himself in full.  Confidentiality and the law prevent school officials from explaining to the public the majority of the decisions--large and small--they make from day to day.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hear ya, though I&#8217;m as OK with the word &#8220;fail&#8221; as I am with &#8220;stupid&#8221; as I used it in my comment.  A little stupidity and failure are part of growing up.  I did stupid things and I failed fairly often when I was a kid.  I do stupid things and I fail as an adult, too.  I use these words because I&#8217;d like to emphasize that it&#8217;s OK to mess up when you&#8217;re young, and it&#8217;s still OK to mess up in certain ways when you&#8217;re older.  </p>
<p>I admit to not knowing the entirety of your local situation, but in almost every instance that I&#8217;ve encountered where an official like this principal was impugned mercilessly for what appeared to be a bad decision, he or she was not out to harm anyone or to enjoy some kind of power trip.  The situation took on a life of its own apart from what any single individual ever wanted to happen, and the initial decision had some kind of specific justification that either could not be communicated fully to the public or seemed uncontroversial until thousands of people started layering on their own interpretations of what was happening.  Maybe the principal in this case acted stupidly (does that justify other people&#8217;s reactions, as you&#8217;ve noted?).  But it&#8217;s quite possible (and frequently happens to be the case) that he didn&#8217;t have the luxury of explaining himself in full.  Confidentiality and the law prevent school officials from explaining to the public the majority of the decisions&#8211;large and small&#8211;they make from day to day.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by Elizabeth Gaucher</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7724</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth Gaucher]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 11:57:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And actually &quot;fail&quot; is not the right word. Just experience the logical outcomes of their choices without adults over-tinkering with that learning process. Nothing about that is a failure, in fact I&#039;d say it is part of long term success.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And actually &#8220;fail&#8221; is not the right word. Just experience the logical outcomes of their choices without adults over-tinkering with that learning process. Nothing about that is a failure, in fact I&#8217;d say it is part of long term success.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by Elizabeth Gaucher</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7723</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth Gaucher]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 11:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amens all around on that one, Mr. B.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amens all around on that one, Mr. B.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by Elizabeth Gaucher</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7722</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth Gaucher]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 10:51:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And that would be one of the ways this could have gone differently. Early in this series of events I told a friend I am sure my former HS principal would have been the one with the shirt on underneath his clothes and been the one to surprise the kids on stage.

That said, &quot;If a frog had wings he wouldn&#039;t bump his ass a hoppin&#039;.&quot; All the talk about the principal handling it another way doesn&#039;t mean much. The first domino fell as it did, so how could others have reacted differently? I liked Michael&#039;s comment. Take the bad out of bad ass and you&#039;re just an ass.

It&#039;s a shame we are afraid to let young people -- excuse me, white young people with relatively influential voting parents -- fail early and fail small.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And that would be one of the ways this could have gone differently. Early in this series of events I told a friend I am sure my former HS principal would have been the one with the shirt on underneath his clothes and been the one to surprise the kids on stage.</p>
<p>That said, &#8220;If a frog had wings he wouldn&#8217;t bump his ass a hoppin&#8217;.&#8221; All the talk about the principal handling it another way doesn&#8217;t mean much. The first domino fell as it did, so how could others have reacted differently? I liked Michael&#8217;s comment. Take the bad out of bad ass and you&#8217;re just an ass.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a shame we are afraid to let young people &#8212; excuse me, white young people with relatively influential voting parents &#8212; fail early and fail small.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by Sam's Branch</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7721</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 01:44:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I read the Daily Mail story and am amazed that those shirts were ever an issue. Gosh they are nothing. It sounds to me like the principal is a bully. Tis a good thing I wasn&#039;t a teacher there because I would have had one of those shirts on.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read the Daily Mail story and am amazed that those shirts were ever an issue. Gosh they are nothing. It sounds to me like the principal is a bully. Tis a good thing I wasn&#8217;t a teacher there because I would have had one of those shirts on.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by lauralittle</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7720</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lauralittle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 17:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Elizabeth; that story helps to clarify and add some context.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Elizabeth; that story helps to clarify and add some context.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by Elizabeth Gaucher</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7719</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elizabeth Gaucher]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 17:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[John, I never said unquestioning. I do find it fascinating that people hear what they want to hear in this dialogue, which I think is part of the problem.

To the FBI, there is no detail given here and I would hope most reasonably aware people in our community know this. You are not here so you get a pass. I received permission from the source to post this. Her concern had more to do with personal consequences than any detrimental effect on public safety.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, I never said unquestioning. I do find it fascinating that people hear what they want to hear in this dialogue, which I think is part of the problem.</p>
<p>To the FBI, there is no detail given here and I would hope most reasonably aware people in our community know this. You are not here so you get a pass. I received permission from the source to post this. Her concern had more to do with personal consequences than any detrimental effect on public safety.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why the Capital High School T-Shirt Debacle Was Lose-Lose-Lose-Lose by johnnyzemo</title>
		<link>http://essediemblog.com/2012/05/23/why-the-capital-high-school-t-shirt-debacle-was-lose-lose-lose-lose/#comment-7718</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[johnnyzemo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 17:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Look, I agree that being a principal or a teacher is an extremely tough job, and teachers and principals need support from parents.  Parents are crucial to a student&#039;s success.  If the parents don&#039;t value education, the child will not value education.

However, in this case I have to respectfully disagree with the idea that the principal deserves our unquestioning support.  Clearly this man needs better conflict resolution skills.  He actively provoked kids into being insubordinate, and then punished them for it.  It takes two to tango--these things don&#039;t happen in a vacuum.  There are better ways to handle these kinds of things.

I believe in respecting leaders, but I also believe that authority should be questioned.  The kids should be held accountable for their actions, but so should he.  He should be the one setting an example and providing leadership.

And honestly, I have to take the whole FBI/gang angle with a grain of salt.  Is this an authoritative source, or someone just passing along gossip?  Why would gangs be interested in only one local high school?  It seems much more likely to me that many local schools have gang issues.  No other local schools have issues with gang colors?  If even mentioning the FBI is going to jinx their investigation, why are you passing along the info here on the internet where anyone can read it?  Sorry, the story just doesn&#039;t make sense to me.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look, I agree that being a principal or a teacher is an extremely tough job, and teachers and principals need support from parents.  Parents are crucial to a student&#8217;s success.  If the parents don&#8217;t value education, the child will not value education.</p>
<p>However, in this case I have to respectfully disagree with the idea that the principal deserves our unquestioning support.  Clearly this man needs better conflict resolution skills.  He actively provoked kids into being insubordinate, and then punished them for it.  It takes two to tango&#8211;these things don&#8217;t happen in a vacuum.  There are better ways to handle these kinds of things.</p>
<p>I believe in respecting leaders, but I also believe that authority should be questioned.  The kids should be held accountable for their actions, but so should he.  He should be the one setting an example and providing leadership.</p>
<p>And honestly, I have to take the whole FBI/gang angle with a grain of salt.  Is this an authoritative source, or someone just passing along gossip?  Why would gangs be interested in only one local high school?  It seems much more likely to me that many local schools have gang issues.  No other local schools have issues with gang colors?  If even mentioning the FBI is going to jinx their investigation, why are you passing along the info here on the internet where anyone can read it?  Sorry, the story just doesn&#8217;t make sense to me.</p>
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